Happy Relationship is what everybody aims to have, now tell me, who wouldn't want? I can proudly say that my relationship with my partner is becoming stronger and better..Wondering why? Hmmmm, because when conflict happens, we talk over it. We always try to avoid arguments like blaming and accusing each other..That's because we don't want to fight over stupid things. It's merely like we're fooling ourselves coz we know in the end we'll still end up feeling sorry for each other. We're so fed up with that kind of situation for we know what's gonna happen next which is based from our repeated experiences.We fight, become hurt and become friends, it's recurring again and again..We just became friends without knowing what was really the issue, we became okay without tackling about it..Thus the issue still remains so that's why the same thing happens all over again coz still we haven't learned from our mistakes.. Now, instead of making an argument we learn to listen to what one has done, understand how one feels, talk things over heartily and apologize each others mistakes..
So at present, we try avoid the things that would only affect our relationship, we talk about several matters on what to do about them and how we must get over with them.Now, we have learned not to argue and debate too much just for nothing, we try to settle things to its meekest and self-effacing manner as much as possible. We resolve whatever troubles and issues we encounter as long as it is still bearable and acceptable. We feel sorry for our shortcomings to lessen the defects in our relationship, Iam not telling here we have the perfect relationship ^_~. Of course! there are damages and defects too and what we're trying to do is to at least save and restore it. We become mindful and pay attention to all negative warnings especially if there is already a sign of "falling debris" in our relationship..That's why when our relationship is undergoing into an "under repair" mode, "we TALK, not WALK-OUT" we make sure that it has to be in the "under renovation" mode to avoid more trouble and conflicts. Moreover, we become mindful of these things now..We always bear in mind that some are just misunderstandings that need to be resolved and others are just irrelevant allegations that has to be ignored..It is all because we value our relationship so much so we put all our PRIDE away..^_~..
Yes, it's true that a relationship lasts longer if one has to put away the pride and overcome the bouts of impatience. Simply one has to be patient if you want to abstain from being prideful whenever unwanted situation arises. Well, It has never been easy to be patient when one commits faults but we always put in mind that PATIENCE is a virtue that can be cultivated and nurtured. We also always remember what matters most, the LOVE we have for each other.
So, together we fight and together we combat against negativity in our relationship, together we battle for the better..We fight off those issues that we know can only ruin us both..We try to overcome those consequences that try to hinder us to a stronger relationship we wish to have..We let go whatever hurt feelings we feel for the sake of saving our relationship in which we treasure so much..Don't be defeated by the pain you feel, instead fight against it..And it would be much better if you both aim for a dearer LOVE mutually :)
As for me and my dearest bf, we believe that life is too short to waste time being angry, too short not to notice and appreciate the wonderful things life is offering . We show our LOVE to each other in its most exciting ways to a feasible extent rather than focusing on negative things that are not worthy in the relationship. Just remember "it ain't over 'till it's over" .. ^_^
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